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follow your dreams

Meet the Downsizing Divas!

May 23, 2012 by Patricia Sands

A few weeks ago I had a great evening at a dinner/meeting  hosted by Anne Day’s Company of Women. These business-oriented functions are super networking opportunities attended by  dynamic women and conversations are animated and informative. There’s never a dull moment and this time I met a couple of true Divas!

You know I love to tell other people’s stories and today I want to introduce you to the fabulous ladies of Downsizing Diva. Now don’t they look like women it would be fun to hang out with? Energetic, always smiling and fun-loving, they run a business that offers a tremendous service. I was delighted to have them pay us a visit here and Karen took some time to answer a few questions.

 How did you and Gail first meet? Was this a personal friendship that became a business partnership?

Gail and I first met at a Professional Organizers in Canada (POC) meeting when Gail was starting her business and I had been in business for just over a year. We quickly discovered we shared similar values and wanted to help the same people, that would be seniors,  organize, downsize and move.

 For about six years, we were friendly-competitors sharing resources, ideas and sometime projects. Over this time, we became friends and, this time at a POC Conference in Vancouver, we decided to become business partners.

 The next thing we knew we were approached and asked to think about franchising our business! The rest, as they say, is history. Our learning curve is not a curve at all – it’s straight-up! We love what we do and we do it all with care, compassion and, sometimes, comedy!

The name of your company, Downsizing Diva, is fabulous. What is the origin of the business?

We love the name too! Years ago, while working with a colleague who called herself “the organizing goddess”,  we were moving a large number of items through a rather up-scale condo lobby. The Property Manager, wondering why we were not using the loading dock, stopped us with the question, “Who do you think you are?”

 Of course, Pat responded with “I am the Organizing Goddess” and then, it was my turn! Not to be outdone, I pulled myself up to full height and answered, “And, I am the Downsizing Diva!” Lots of laughs ensued and a new company name was born!

Are most of your clients in the “seniors” demographic or do you find you are helping younger people as the condo craze explodes?

Gail and I are pioneers in the “senior move management business” and, over the years, we realize how important the “downsizing” component is to any move. We all have too much stuff and our job is to help our clients take only the items they want, use and need when they move to a new home.

 We know that there are lots of people who could use the services of Downsizing Diva, and we also know the people we enjoy helping the most!

 Historically, our clients tended to NEED our services, but recently,  we are finding a whole new group of clients who WANT our services. Either way, we are committed to helping our clients go from overwhelmed to overjoyed when they contemplate their upcoming move.

What is the most rewarding aspect of your work?

The most rewarding aspect of the work we do is having the opportunity to help people every single day. We are proud to say we do our work WITH our clients, not TO them because we understand the emotional rollercoaster  involved with preparing for a move. We take time to listen to the stories while continuing to move forward on the sorting, downsizing and packing part of the process.

 Sometimes, at the end of a move we realize that our clients don’t  have anyone to help them with some of the day-to-day stuff – banking, bill-paying, shopping… That’s why we created “Diva-at-your-Service” to continue to help.

 We like to say, we treat our clients like family…and we mean that in the nicest way! 

With the aging of our population, a business like yours that offers such important assistance can only continue to grow. Is this something you would recommend to others to pursue?

Would we recommend this “senior move management” business to others? In a heartbeat!

 We love what we do and we have decided to franchise our business so we can help even more people! We’ve developed a recognizable brand, a successful business model and wonderful, supportive network of Divas – it’s a dream come true! Think you’ve got what it takes to be a Downsizing Diva…give us a call! We love to talk! 

You, Gail and Gerine have such winning personalities. What would you recommend to others who are contemplating offering services such as yours?

Our recommendation is…follow your passion and be authentic! That’s it, in a nutshell!

We know we can teach people how to “downsize and organize”, but what we can’t do is teach anyone to LOVE working with senior clients. You either do, or you don’t

Fortunately we do…we love our clients, we love doing what we do and we mean it when we say, we love what we do…and it shows!

What’s not to like about that???

To add to their list of talents, these two Divas are authors as well! They’ve written the essential book on moving and you can easily order it directly from their website by clicking right here.

Do you have Downsizing Divas in your neighbourhood?  We’re very glad to have them in ours! What sort of networking groups do you belong to, as a writer or for other reasons?

Filed Under: Blog, News Tagged With: 2011 Next Generation Indie Book Awards Finalist, Downsizing Divas, follow your dreams, ForeWord 2010 Book Of The Year Finalist, Gail Shields, Karen Shinn, Patricia Sands, The Bridge Club, the power of friendship, Women, writing

A Mother’s Day postscript

May 14, 2012 by Patricia Sands

Have you seen this? My daughter forwarded it to me. We don’t all have children that grow up to be Olympic competitors, but they are all champions in our hearts. The job is the same for each of us. Enjoy.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FMunV1Y4X2o

Filed Under: Blog, News Tagged With: 2011 Next Generation Indie Book Awards Finalist, champions, children, follow your dreams, ForeWord 2010 Book Of The Year Finalist, love, moms, mothers, parenting, Patricia Sands, The Bridge Club, Women

MANday Challenge – enter to win!

May 1, 2012 by Patricia Sands

Jillian Dodd and CJ West are two terrific writers in very different genres. As you might guess from Jillian’s website, she writes about romance and fun. Take a look at CJ’s website and you know immediately the man is dangerous … at least he writes dangerous. He’s actually a sweet guy!

And it’s his birthday today (May 1st)!

Jillian has issued a challenge to CJ and he has stepped up to the plate. Please check it out and do your part by simply going (click right here) to CJ’s website and leaving a comment.

You know it will only take 30 seconds to do it … unless you decide to leave a really long comment! In return you will be eligible to win a prize package of e-books and also be entered in the draw to win a $500.00 Amazon Gift Card.

I know! Wow!  Five. Hundred. Dollars!

How can you say no to that??!

So what is MANday might you ask?  It’s really better if I SHOW you.  Are you sitting down? You know how I love to post photos of France, well Jillian’s MANday photos are in a slightly different category.

Feast your eyes on Samoan Rugby Players and Their Tattoos or if you prefer more clean cut, try MANday’s Magic Mike, a blog all about the upcoming movie premier for a story about  … ahem … male erotic dancers!

Okay, take a minute to splash some cold water on your face and catch your breath. Honestly, that Jillian is a real firecracker and knows how to get the party going! We all love her.

So here’s what you need to know about the contest:

If we can get 5,000 people to comment on CJ’s website before the end of June, he agreed to be featured in MANday!

If you help us, YOU will be eligible to win a prize package of ebooks by both CJ West and Jillian Dodd, as well as some other excellent writers’ books. You can enter to win that package by doing this:

Tweet this:  Help @jilliandodd convince @cjwest to be on MANday http://wp.me/p1zk5w-A7 #teamnoshirt #contest #prize #kindle #books

If we reach the goal, CJ and Jillian will also award a $500 Amazon Gift card to one lucky winner!!!

To enter, go to CJ’s blog and leave a comment. I tried to get him to come over and convince you himself but he’s busy working out. He knows he better be ready and looking good. The pressure is on!

List of e-books in prize package:

That Boy  by Jillian Dodd
That Wedding by Jillian Dodd
The End of Marking Time by CJ West
Sin And Vengeance by CJ West
Drawing Free by Elena Aitken
Devil Unknown a novella by Steena Holmes
Elemental Magic by Angela Wallace
Again by Diana Murdock
Telesa by Lani Wendt Young
Exiled by MR Merrick
The Bridge Club by Patricia Sands
 
Doesn’t this contest sound like fun?  It’s a little outside the norm and that’s the way we like it!  Be sure to leave your comment for CJ before July 1st!
 

Filed Under: Author Promotion, Blog Tagged With: 2011 Next Generation Indie Book Awards Finalist, Addicted To Love, CJ West, follow your dreams, ForeWord 2010 Book Of The Year Finalist, Jillian Dodd, MANday contest, Patricia Sands, Taking Stock, That Boy, That Wedding, The Bridge Club, The End Of Marking Time, the power of friendship, The Randy Black Series, writing

Get “Hooked” Right Here!

April 24, 2012 by Patricia Sands

As you all know by now, sharing stories is something I love to do. Whether it’s talking about truly worthwhile causes like the new fund-raising idea for breast cancer begun by Donna Sheehan in Toronto or introducing you to one of the many wonderful writers or reviewers in our online community, it’s always a pleasure for me … a real buzz … truly!

Today I would like you to meet Tele Aadsen from Sitka, Alaska, who is not only a gifted writer and blogger on her website Hooked, but whose day (and night) job in the summer is one of the most interesting I’ve ever come across. I know you are going to agree.

I stumbled across Tele’s blog by accident last year and have been an avid subscriber ever since. An online connection grew and I’m proud to consider her a friend. After getting to know her here, I have no doubt you are going to want to check out her posts on Hooked and her partner Cap’n J’s spectacular photography on his website.

Nerka with Mt. Fairweather

Tele, you bring your days at sea to life so vividly we can almost feel the motion of the Nerka as she rides the waves. What is the average schedule of the Nerka in a year? What is your schedule like during the “season”? Are you able to do much writing while at sea or do you wait until you are back in safe harbour? Do you return every evening? How do you spend your off-season?
For 6 months a year, the Nerka is home to me, my partner Joel, and Bear the Boat Cat – our 43-foot universe. Sitka, Alaska, is our home port, and we move aboard in March to do boat maintenance and some small salmon openings. I hop on a friend’s boat in May to crew for halibut and black cod, then return to the Nerka for our primary salmon season, July-September.
Joel and I fling ourselves into a silver-scaled marathon, determined to spend as much time with our hooks in the water as conditions allow. Sometimes we’re trolling 40 miles off-shore, unable to see land, sleeping in the waves’ embrace. Other times we’re nestled against the Southeast Alaskan coastline, anchoring in protected coves, air heavy with the songs of Swainson’s thrush and the scent of the Tongass National Forest. We process and blast-freeze our salmon to be market-ready, which means we stay out until the Nerka is full – up to several weeks at a time.
This intense pace isn’t very conducive to writing. I prioritize getting a blog post up when we come back to land, but that’s a 1-2 day whirlwind of delivering fish, getting groceries, showers, doing laundry, any emergent boat projects. My best writing opportunities are in the off-season, when we’re ashore in Washington State. Our goal is to catch enough salmon that we can devote our winter to our respective passions – writing for me, landscape photography for him.
I love how you refer to Bear the Boat Cat as the Chief Morale Officer! Do you know how old she is? Have you ever had any other executive crew on board before Bear?
Growing up fishing with my mom, I always had a boat cat. Joel had never had a pet on board. We got together in 2004; he began running the Nerka the following year. I initially refused to work for him – had my own identity as a deckhand, and didn’t want to be “the girlfriend” onboard. But being on separate boats, waving to each other across the water for weeks on end, was a bit of a bummer, and negotiations took place… I said I’d be his crew if we got a boat cat!
Bear joined our crew in 2006. She’s remarkably adaptable, very forgiving of our transient lifestyle. She came from the Sitka Animal Shelter, and we think she’s about 9. Bear’s adoption is a fabulously Alaskan story that I plan to post in July – stay tuned!

When did you begin writing and what has been your experience so far? Do you plan to publish your work? Was it difficult to organize the writers’ group during the winter? There appear to be some very talented folks in it.
I’m an awkward, word-fumbling introvert in person. Writing has always been my safety net, the best way for me to process and connect. For much of my 20’s, though, I was more lapsed writer than practicing! I dreamed of the fishing memoir I’d write “someday,” but allowed fear and laziness to hold me back. In November 2010, I reconnected with my former colleague Cami Ostman, author of an inspiring memoir. Endlessly encouraging, she made me believe that I could write my book – if I was willing to do the work.
That was a turning point. So often, when we take an audacious “here goes” leap and truly give ourselves to our dreams, the pieces fall into place. I was so hungry for a writing community; Red Wheelbarrow Writers provided inspiring teachers, mentors, and gifted friends. I lacked discipline and accountability; my blog readers created a dialogue that makes me eager to engage. They’ve all infused me with a confidence and commitment that I didn’t have on my own. So yes, publication is a goal, and I’m preparing to shop that long-dreamed memoir.

Tele writing on anchor 2011

An important aspect of your blog is the way you help the rest of us gain an understanding of the delicate balance of nature viewed from your perspective, as well as important environmental issues. What are your major concerns in this regard?
Pop culture often presents commercial fishing as a catch-all-you-can, man-against-nature fury. But for me, fishing isn’t just about making a living on the water – I’m making a life, and want it to reflect values of sustainability, quality over quantity, connection with each fish and our surroundings. As a writer, I want others to experience the joys and challenges of this stunning region. A key point is that Hooked is – as you said – from my perspective. I’m not a scientist or a journalist. I’m a tree hugging, tofu eating fisherman, a woman in a male-dominated industry, sharing my experiences at sea, in a small island community, working/living in a very small space with my sweetheart.

Your partner, Joel (aka Cap’n J) is a talented photographer. Is his work published anywhere or does he sell it privately?

T and J with big glazed kings

Thanks for asking! Photography is to Joel what writing is to me; he gets his soul food being amongst mountains and forests. This is a relatively new passion – he’s been doing landscape photography for less than 2 years, and is currently building his website to market his work. Please watch for www.joelbradypower.com in the fall; until then, you can view some of his work here.

Patricia, one of the things I love about your blog is the community you’ve created around you, people coming together from such diverse life experiences, appreciating each other’s unique stories. I’m honored to be included – thank you for having me!

The pleasure was mine and my dear readers. The unique story of every single person is what makes every day such an adventure. I feel fortunate to have a platform to share these stories.

Good luck with the fishing season! We will all be looking forward to following your continuing journey both on and off the seas.

How cool is this? What’s one of the most interesting careers you have come across amongst your friends? For the writers reading this, can you imagine including settings in your work such as the ones Tele encounters? Have you ever written about the sea?

Filed Under: Author Promotion, Blog Tagged With: 2011 Next Generation Indie Book Awards Finalist, Alaska landscape photography, Cami Ostman, Canadian Breast Cancer Support Fund, Cap'n J, Donna Sheehan, follow your dreams, ForeWord 2010 Book Of The Year Finalist, friendship, Nerka, Patricia Sands, Red Wheelbarrow Writes, salmon fishing, Tele Aadsen, The Bridge Club, the power of friendship, Women, writing

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