Lest we forget ~ November 11, 2018

Remembrance Day ~ Canada

Tomorrow at the 11th hour of the 11th day in this the 11th month, our country will pause for two minutes’ silence to remember those  heroes who have given their lives and in respect of all who offer their service … in every country. 

We owe so much to so many.


I have posted this page in years past on this date. Since there are many new followers of my website, I want to share it again for those who haven’t seen it. For others, I hope you don’t mind the repetition. I feel these stories can never be shared too often.

In 2010, my husband and I went on a journey to locate the grave of my Uncle Harry whose Lancaster bomber had been shot down on June 13, 1944, near Cambrai, France. All six crew members  perished.


We discovered they are buried in a small Allied cemetery in the middle of farmland, rather than in one of the major cemeteries in France.

It was quite an experience just finding it, but that’s a story for another day. When I inquired as to why they were in that location, the Office of Military Affairs explained that they had been buried there by the nearby villagers at the time and so would remain close to where they had died. The cemetery was immaculately tended … and watched over by curious cows.


Coincidentally, just a week before our visit, another relative of one of the crew had visited the cemetery. He left a note in the guest book (found in metal boxes at every cemetery) that gave us some personal information about the day these men died. They had been on a bombing raid over the rail yards in Cambrai. The war was being won. The men were heading back to their base in England to make it in time for the local dance that evening.

Sadly, they did not get there.

Learning this small piece of personal information, made our visit that much more emotional and intimate.

As a child, I had always been intrigued by stories about my Uncle Harry, the youngest of 5 boys, and only 20 years old when he died. There were framed photos of him in his uniform with a dazzling smile in my parents’ and grandparents’ homes. You could feel his pride. And theirs.

When we went on our mission to ‘find Uncle Harry’, we also spent a few days in Normandy and did the tours of the WW2 landing beaches, something I recommend to everyone who has the opportunity.

It’s an emotional experience as the history of the war becomes vividly presented by guides who must take courses in this information and pass exams before receiving a license to guide. The French take the preservation of this history very seriously and are to be commended for doing so.


As we toured the museums and memorial centres, it struck me that in so many of the photographs of men and women in service for their country, pride was stirringly evident in their expressions. It seems to go with the wearing of the uniform and the understanding of what that represents.

Thank you to every one of the members of armed services – past and present – for putting yourself in danger for your country and taking on that onerous task with such commitment. We are proud of you and eternally grateful.

Thank you, Uncle Harry.

Normandy 2010

Wear your poppy proudly. Please make certain to preserve and keep alive the stories of the members of your families who have served in the armed forces. Always remember. In doing some research, I discovered this excellent video. It only pertains to the American cemeteries but could be talking about all of the Allied burial grounds.


No matter what our country, hearts are touched by the selfless giving of all who serve. The museums and preserved landing beaches of Normandy offer an emotional lesson in historyto all who have the good fortune to visit there.

Most Canadians proudly wear a poppy for a week or so before November 11th to show their respect for veterans. Click here for an  excellent explanation of how the poppy came to be such a strong symbol of remembrance.

Thank you for taking the time to read this. Have you preserved stories of your family’s service?

About Patricia Sands

Family, writing and travel are my passions ... okay, and chocolate ... and I'm seldom without a camera. I write women's fiction and keep in touch with readers by a monthly newsletter that also has giveaways and contests. Come and join us by signing up on the right. See you there!


  1. Eternal gratitude on my side, for sure. Thank you for your post, Patricia, even if I already read it in the past.

    • Patricia Sands says

      Thank you, Evelyne. You have shared these feelings in past years … and added some very meaningful words from your own family’s experiences. Always appreciated.

  2. This post is doubly special because it involves someone in your family. We went to Normandy many years ago too, and I still remember the emotions of that “visit”. Thanks so much for sharing this with us. You are a gem, Pat!!!

    • Patricia Sands says

      It’s truly an unforgettable experience to visit those landing beaches and be surrounded by that history. We were glad we found my uncle’s burial place and then had that additional personal experience that day. Some things are meant to happen …

  3. Angela Sanford says

    Thank you so much for sharing this beautiful message. I had a Uncle that was killed in WWII and I have been thinking about him a lot here lately. To all of the military personnel, past and present, I Thank You from the bottom of my heart, for your service! For protecting Our Country and all of the sacrifices that each and every one of you have made, Thank You and I will never forget!

    • Patricia Sands says

      Angela, thank you for this poignant comment. We do owe such gratitude to the men and women through all the years who offer their service for all of us. Every. single. one.

  4. We did the Normandy tour Also, and it truly is awe-inspiring. You can’t help but think of all the men who gave their lives that we might enjoy our freedom.

    • Patricia Sands says

      You are so right, Bette. It’s an incredibly emotional experience, isn’t it? We felt privileged to have the opportunity to be there. So many souls lost …

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